Friday, May 13, 2011

Drupada : A Powerful Character of Mahabharata


Drupada was the son of Prishta and prince of Panchal. He and Drona were together in Gurukul days and were close friends in childhood. Drona was a poor brahmin whereas Drupada belonged to a royal family. Drupada once said to Drona that whatever is his, its half is his. Drupada's this promise was at the root of all the events which happened afterwards. This promise shows that at young age, Drupada was just like an ordinary child having clean heart and caring friend without realizing what consequences they could bring upon. As he was aware of the status of Drona, he said things to make Drona to not feel sad about his current status. This behaviour of Drupada represents an innocent child who has goodwill for his friends and want to see them happy.

Drona married Kripi, the sister of Kripacharya. He was blessed with a son named Ashwatthama. Because of no living means, Kripi was not able to give him even milk. Once Drona saw her giving him flour water telling him as milk. Drona got very sad in such great difficult time. He remembered his friend Drupada and his promise. He went to Drupada and reminded about his promise made in childhood and asked him a cow from his share. Drupada refused his friendship and said "I can give as many cow as you ask if you ask as a brahmin but not as a friend. Friendship is always between the people of same status, we have no equality between us". Listening this insulting tone Drona got infuriated and left the court in anger.

Hurt and humiliated by Drupada’s words, Drona decided to become Drupada’s equal. A very dramatic decision. Born of righteous outrage. But is it a right decision? What are the consequences of such rage? Drona’s decision must be analyzed carefully.

In Vedic society, a king’s role was to maintain the caste hierarchy – ensure kings behaved as kings and priests behaved as priests. Drupada in many ways was doing his role. He could have been nicer but he was not doing anything wrong. He ended up upsetting Drona and an enraged Drona took a step that went against the rules of caste which, according to Vedic ideology, had the potential to destroy social order. Caste is an ugly word today. We can say that in breaking the code of caste Drona was a revolutionary. But his motivation is not righteous ! He breaks it not because he believes in social equality; he breaks it to teach his erstwhile friend a lesson.

This event shows Drupada's thoughts on friendship. His statement regarding friendship is the perception which exists in the ordinary person in the society. But there can be no justification of insulting an childhood friend leave alone a brahmin. Friendship of Krishna-Sudama, Duryodhana-Karna are examples that friendship could exist between people of unequal status. Being a king, he should not have a brahmin return from his court in anger. When in anger, a brahmin's curse could completely destroy his wealth and kingdom on the basis of which he denied the friendship.

Later Drona became teacher of pandava and kaurava. In Guru-Dakshina, he asked them to capture Drupada. The kauravas fail to capture him but the pandavas captured him alive and brought him in front of Drona. Drona spared his life and returned the southern half of his kingdom to him. This generous act of Drona humiliated Drupada more. Drupada became sorrowful, humiliated and full of grief.Drupada returned home burning for revenge, and , to procure it, he prevailed upon Yaja and Upyaja to perform a sacrifice, by the efficacy of which he obtained a son, Dhristadyumna, who would slay Drona in battle, and a daughter who would wed Arjuna as Drupada was impressed by archery skills of Arjuna. Had he realized what pain he gave to Drona and apologized for it, these events could have been avoided. But he could realize these as his wealth made him morally blind.


In this story, we see how humiliation fueled the fire of revenge in Drupada's mind. His daughter Draupadi became one of the main reasons of war. Had Drona not been insulted by him in his court, subsequent events which happened could have been tolerated. Not only Drupada took part in the Kurukshetra war, but also Shikhandee, Dhrishtdyumna and other sons of Drupada actively participated in the war from the pandavas side. Due to Shikhandee, Bhishma was slain and by Dhrishtdyumna, Drona was killed. In this way, Drupad was related to end of first two commander-in-chief of Kaurav Sena.

When Krishna was a child, he too had promised a fellow student,Sudama,half his wealth. The poor Brahmin did visit Krishna years later. He was too embarrassed to ask Krishna for anything. Yet, Krishna showered him with gifts. This difference between Krishna and Drupada is worth noting. There is affection in Krishna’s behavior. This is missing in Drupada. Drupada is too busy playing king. He is obsessed with hierarchies. Krishna is governed only by love. What Krishna possesses and Drupada lacks is a generosity of spirit.

Drupada fought in the Kurukshetra war on the side of the Pandavas whereas Drona was on the side of the Kauravas. On the 15th day of the war, the great duel between Drona and Drupada was fought. Before the war, Drona sked Drupada, "This is our final chance to meet each other, let's greet each other". But Drupad replied, "You are not even worthy of my greetings, Drona". Drupada was slain by Drona in the fight of that day. On the same day, Drona was also killed by Dhristadyumna. Details of how Drona was conspired is not relevant in this context.

His one rude behaviour costed him pain of life. End of Drona became his major goal in life. His character failed as a friend and it affected his whole life and kingdom. Insulting a brahmin is a sin and as a king and a kshatriya, he should have been careful with his behaviour. We find the Drupad's character was full of ego and pride for his wealth. He also becomes full of vengeance as he considers the act of generosity as an act of humiliation.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Doctor or Engineer

Doctor v/s Engineer

who is brilliant an engineer or a doctor ??

7 Engineers and 7 Doctors are going from PUNE to
Mumbai. So they both gather at Pune Station. Both
groups are desperately trying to prove their
superiority.

SCENE 1 (PUNE- MUMBAI) :

7 engineers take only 1 Ticket and 7 doctors buy all 7
tickets.. Doctors are desperately waiting for TC to
come...... When TC arrives, All 7 Engineers get in one
toilet SO when TC knocks , one hand come out with the
ticket and the TC goes away....Doctors say "Dekh
lenge"




SCENE 2 (MUMBAI - LONAVALA) :

Doctors decided, "this time we will prove that we too
are equally SHAANE"....All 7 Doctors take 1 Ticket
Engineers don't buy any ticket at all!!!!!..TC
arrives....
ALL DOCTORS IN ONE TOILET.ALL ENGINEERS IN THE
OPPOSITE ONE..
One engineer gets out and knocks the door of Doctors
toilet, One hand comes with the tickets, he takes the
ticket and comes in engg Bathroom... TC DRIVES out
ALL the doctors ....

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Become a specialist at being a generalist

Almost always, everyone seem to fall into one of two types – the specialists and the generalists. The specialists are those who come from a strong background of fundamentals. Over years, they have honed and assimilated the details of their language or technology of choice. The generalists are the hungry scavengers. They try everything at least once, are infatuated with exploring every new technology or programming language and have built up a repertoire of buzzwords in their resumes.

The question often asked is: if you were asked to choose from two candidates – a specialist and a generalist – which would you choose? Like most things in life, it’s not a binary answer. There isn’t a right or wrong answer. There are, however, right or wrong decisions on hiring the right candidate for the right job. Each type of candidate has their strengths and weaknesses. It’s best to make the decision after careful evaluation of how closely aligned these types of candidates are to the job requirements and to the company at large.

This post is intended to be an introduction to a series of posts where I hope to give valuable tips on becoming an effective generalist. Before we begin though, I’d like to clarify a couple of things. By offering tips on becoming a better generalist, I don’t mean to suggest in any way that a generalist is better than a specialist – it’s just that I have more experience as a generalist as I have spent my career being one. And more specifically, I will tell you how to be a better generalist. How you use my tips in practice to improve yourself will be an exercise left up to your talent, dedication and passion. With that out of the way, let’s begin with the first in the series.

Become a specialist at being a generalist
This may sound almost like an oxymoron, but hear me out. Often, I’ve seen too many startup-headed, caffeine-infused, entry-level engineers who are ready to conquer the world. They dive into their projects with vigor and passion, trying to excel and outshine other members of the team. This is great and is the right attitude to have, and if you’re one of these individuals, you’re on the right track.



But commonly, what develops is this insatiable thirst for doing too much. It starts slow at first. Inconspicuously over time, you may find your behavior leading to a need for constant exploration of new fields of knowledge. In a startup company, it’s the engineers in the team who have the “i-can-do-everything” attitude. You start to not only code, but help out with tech support tickets. A marketing colleague drops by and you promise to deliver a new undocumented feature that will look good on your resume. Your geek buddies suddenly start talking about Python, and you want to learn it right away and test it out on a project. A new framework hits the web, you need to rewrite that last web application using the new framework. This weekend. Sound familiar?

What is important to note is that the above attitude isn’t bad – instead it’s possibly detrimental to your development as an outstanding generalist. In fact, the attitude is the focal point of being a great generalist. However, being caught in a never-ending spiral of exploration is the crux of someone who could have been a great generalist. That’s why it’s important to specialize in being a generalist. What does this mean? Specialization in any field means knowing the ins and outs. It means being ahead of the curve, leading rather than following innovation in the field. It also means doing what you do best, and better than the rest. And this is exactly what differentiates an effective and outstanding generalist from the rest.

It means to know what to explore. It means knowing how to keep your skills up to date. It means critically thinking about every new technology and what it means to you. It means visualizing the results before jumping into a new project.

So, I hear you say, that’s easier said than done. Actually, you’ll be amazed at how easy it is to accomplish with a little discipline and a few tips. Here are a few:

Stay up-to-date with your area of generalization. This is crucial to the art of being a generalist. You must be able to consume large amounts of information each and every day to stay current on trends in your field. Over time, get into the habit of refining your methodologies. Always adapt as tools evolve and new ones come up. Become a master at picking good information out from the bad. Try to read sources of information that you trust, and have helped you in the past. Don’t get caught in the ‘chatter’ – opinions are plenty and every blogger has more than a few, learn to separate them from the real information.
Know what to explore and what to ignore. This is the second step after you’ve found the right information. Read and learn more than what you actually explore and implement. Remember that time is very precious for every generalist. Don’t waste it by exploring a ‘cool’ website, learning a new language that all the cool geeks are talking about, etc. without knowing exactly how and why it will help you. Almost 50% of what you decide to explore will be of no use to you. The higher you manage to push this success rate, the more successful you’ll be.
Be critical of new technologies. Mankind will always continue to invent and innovate. And when there’s not enough innovation, there’s recycling. If you’ve been around long enough, you’ll be able to pick out what’s recycled and what’s innovative. Learn this skill and get better at it. Think critically of a new technology that claims to solve a problem. Can this problem be solved with what you already know? Was this ever a problem or is this a problem that’s made up just to invent a new technology that solves it?
Visualize the results of all new pursuits and endeavors. It’s easy to start every new project with an unknown factor. It’s the thought that whatever work you do will be worth it and at the end, there will be a lesson learned. Though this is a very healthy attitude to have, it only works well if you have a lot of time on your hands. But when time is short, it’s better to visualize the rewards from such a project. Is it going to increase your skill set in a particular language? Or is it going to help you gain understanding of a core technology across all languages? Spend time on it only if the rewards qualify the effort. Otherwise, be patient and spend time on something else that will give you bigger rewards.
Don’t over-generalize. No potential employer is going to look through 30 different buzzwords and be excited that you tried and explored each. In most cases, an employer has already decided and probably spent a great amount of resources on a few key technologies. They need someone that fits into one or more of the technologies they use – not the other way around. The key is to explore many technologies but concentrate and gain expertise in a select few.
These tips should help you direct yourself on the path to becoming a more effective generalist. Stay tuned for more articles on specific tips to help you along the way.

Always remember that being a generalist helps you get your resume through the door, specializing at being a generalist gets you the job.

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Love and Anger

Beautiful Story!! must read

While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son
picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it
many times, not realizing he was using an iron wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to
multiple fractures. When the child saw his father....

with painful eyes he asked 'Dad when will my fingers
grow back?'

Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and
kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions...... sitting in front of
that car he looked at the scratches, child had written
'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide....

Anger and Love have NO LIMIT - choose the latter to have a
beautiful & lovely life....

THINGS are meant to be USED and PEOPLE are to be LOVED,
...but the problem of today's world is that...
People are used
& Things are loved!!!

One can change if ONE wants to !

Thursday, July 30, 2009

FUNNY SHORT STORY

टीचर (क्लास मे पढाते हुए), "बच्चो आयकर, बिक्रीकर, भूमिकर से मिलता झुलता कोइ और शब्द बताओ।"

निशु, "सर, एक नही तीन शब्द सुने, सुनील गावासकर, सचिन तैंदुलकर और दिलीप वेंगसरकर।"






मनु,"डेडी, ज्यादा काबिल कौन है मैं या आप?"

डैडी, " मै, क्योकि मैं एक तो तुम्हारा बाप हुँ, दुसरे उम्र मे भी तुम से बडा हुँ और मेरा तजुर्बा भी तुम से ज्यादा है।"

मनु, "फ़िर तो आप जानते होगें कि अमेरिका की खोज किस ने की थी? "

डैडी, "कोलम्बस ने की थी"

मनु, "कोलम्बस के बाप ने क्यों नही की, उसका तजुर्बा तो कोलम्बस से कही ज्यादा होगी?"






एक छोटा बच्‍चा दुसरे बच्‍चे से, अगर दिन को सूर्य न निकला तो क्या होगा?

दुसरे बच्‍चे ने जवाब दिया, "बिजली का बिल बढ जाएगा।"





टीचर (मिन्नी से), "आज स्कूल मे देर से आने का तुमने क्या बहाना ढूंढा है?"

मिन्नी, "सर आज मै इतनी तेज दौड कर आई कि बहाना सोचने का मौका ही नही मिला।"




मरते समय पति ने अपने पत्नी को सब कुछ सच बताना चाहा । उस ने कहा " मै तुम्हे जीवन भर धोखा देता रहा। सच तो यह है कि दर्जनो औरतों से मेरे नाजायज संबंध थे।"
पत्नी बोली, "मै भी सच बताना चाहूँगी । तुम बीमारी से नही मर रहे मैने तुम्हे धीरे-धीरे असर करने वाला जहर दिया है।"





पत्नी: मैने आज सपनो मे देखा है कि तुम मेरे लिए हीरों का हार लाए हो, इस सपने का क्या मतलब है?
पति: आज शाम को बताऊगा। शाम को पति ने एक पैकेट पत्नी को लाकर दिया। पत्नी ने खुशी-खुशी पैकेट खोला तो उस मे एक किताब निकली । किताब का नाम था, 'सपनो का मतलब'




नया सिपाही (इंस्पैक्टर से), "सर ये बिलकुल गलत है कि मैं उस चोर से डर गया था।"

इंस्पैक्टर, "तो तुम उस गाडी के पिछे क्यों छिपे थे?"

नया सिपाही, "जी वह तो मैं कुत्ता देख कर छिपा था ।"







मैनेजर ने आने वाले से पूछा, " क्या तुम्हें पता नही कि आज्ञा के बिना अन्दर आना मना है।"

आने वाला, "जनाब मैं आज्ञा लेने के लिए ही अन्दर आया हूं।"





अध्यापक," बाबर भारत मे कब आया?"

बंटी, "पता नही सर।"

अध्यापक, " बोर्ड पर नही देख सकते, नाम के साथ ही लिखा है।"

बंटी, मैने सोचा, शायद वह उसका फ़ोन नम्बर है।"











एक बहानेबाज कर्मचारी का दादा उस के दफ़तर में जा कर उस के बाँस से बोला, " इस दफ़तर मे सुनिल नाम का व्यक्ति कार्य करता है, मुझे उस से मिलना है, वह मेरा पोता है।"

बाँस ने मुस्करा कर कहा, " मुझे अफ़सोस है, आप देर से आए है, वह आप के आर्थी को कंधा देने के लिए छुट्टी लेकर जा चुका है।"








सेठानी (नौकरानी से), "क्यों महारानी जी आज आने मे इतनी देर क्यों लगा दी?"

नौकरानी, "सेठानी जी मै सीढियों से गिर गई थी।"

सेठानी, "तो क्या उठने मे इतनी देर लगती है।"

Friday, July 17, 2009

Jokes for friends

Story 1.

चमन भाई को पता चला की उसके एकाउंटेंट ने उसे ५० करोड़ का चुना लगाया है.

एकाउंटेंट गूंगा और बहरा था. उसे नौकरी पर इसलिये लगाया था की बहरा होने के कारण कभी कोई राज़ की बात सुन नहीं सकेगा, और गूंगा होने के कारण कभी कोर्ट में उसके खिलाफ गवाही नहीं दे सकेगा.

चमन भाई को गूंगे-बहारो के इशारो की समझ नहीं थी इसलिये पूछताछ के लिए अपने दाहिने हाथ "सटकेला" को ले गया जिसे इशारो की समझ थी.

चमन भाई ने एकाउंटेंट से पूछा "बता तुने जो मेरे ५० करोड़ उडाये है वो कहाँ छुपा रखे है?"

सटकेला ने इशारो में एकाउंटेंट से पुछा उसने पैसे कहाँ छुपाये.

एकाउंटेंट ने इशारे में कहाँ : "मैं कुछ नहीं जानता तुम किं पैसो की बात कर रहे हो"

सटकेला ने चमन भाई से कहा: "भाई बोल रहा वो कुछ नहीं जानता हम किं पैसो की बात कर रहे है."

चमन भाई को गुस्सा आ गया और पिस्तौल एकाउंटेंट की कनपट्टी पर रखकर बोला "अब फिर पूछ!"

सटकेला ने इशारों में एकाउंटेंट को कहा: "तुने अगर नहीं बताया और भाई ने घोडा दबा दिया तो समझ ले तेरी वाट लग जायेगी!"

एकाउंटेंट ने डरकर इशारे किये: "अच्छा! में बताता हूँ! मैंने पैसे मेरे चचेरे भाई संतु के घर के पिछवाड़े में गाड़ दिए थे!"

चमन भाई ने पूछा: "क्या बोलता है सटकेला?"

सटकेला ने जवाब दिया: "भाई... बोलता है... की आपमें हिम्मत नहीं की उसे गोली मार सके!!"


Story 2.

एक दिन राजू के पापा एक रोबोट ले कर आये.

वह रोबोट झूठ पकड़ सकता था और झूठ बोलने वाले को गाल पर खीँच कर चांटा मार देता था.

आज राजू स्कूल से घर देर से आया था... पापा ने पूछा "घर लौटने में देर क्यो हो गयी?"

"आज हमारी एक्स्ट्रा क्लासेस थी" राजू ने जवाब दिया...

रोबोट अचानक अपनी जगह से उछला और जमकर राजू के गाल पर चांटा मार दिया.

पापा हंसकर बोले, "ये रोबोट हर झूठ को पकड़ सकता है और झूठ बोलने वाले को चांटा भी मारता है. अब सच क्या है यह बताओ... कहाँ गए थे?"

"में फिल्म देखने गया था" राजू बोला

"कौन सी फिल्म?" पापा ने कड़ककर पूछा

"हनुमान"
चटाक... अभी राजू की बात पूरी भी नहीं हुई थी की उसके गाल पर रोबोट ने एक जोर का चांटा मारा.

"कौन सी फिल्म?" पापा ने फिर पूछा

"कातिल जवानी."

पापा ग़ुस्से में बोले "शर्म आनी चाहिए तुम्हे. जब में तुम्हारे जितना था तब ऐसी हरकत नहीं किया करता था."

चटाक... रोबोट ने एक चांटा मारा... इस बार पापा के गाल पर.

यह सुनते ही मम्मी किचन में से आते हुए बोली "आख़िर तुम्हारा बेटा है ना... झूठ तो बोलेगा ही"

अब मम्मी की बारी थी... चटाक...

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Funny Jokes

Joke 1:

A ship was sinking.
Captain: Does any one know how to pray?
A priest comes forward and says he can pray.
Captain: Ok priest, you pray;
Everyone else in ship will wear a life jacket
as we are one jacket short.

Joke 2:

2 men were searching for their lost wife in a festival.
Banta: What does your wife look like?
Santa: She is 5′7″, 36-24-36 sexy figure,
fair, sweet, beautiful, green sexy eyes, brown hair, and yours?

Banta: Forget mine, let us look for yours.


Joke 3:



Santa: Look a thief has entered our kitchen
and he is eating the cake I made.

Banta: Whom should I call now,
Police or Ambulance?



Joke 4:

TERROR JOKE -
What will happen
if u throw an AMPLIFIER into the sea?
TSUNAMI will be created
since an amplifier converts
small waves into bigger wave